Well I am going to quote a story but before that let me clear that all here is my way of thinking and my philosophy; you may find some or all of it unacceptable so sorry if its hurting someone...
Its a true story...but sorry if you found some unacceptable words
Story:
Once one of my friend went to USA. He went to some dance bar in Los Veges. He choose Lap Dance(Hope u all know what it is) to enjoy there. While the dance he tried to involve more with that girl but she stopped him and his arms every time...by saying "Sir its not allowed..."
After she finished the song; she asked him whether he want one more song...but he demanded more...he asked her to sleep with him...And he was surprised by her answer though she was dancing naked just a while ago and was also ready for dancing on some more song(but not for S*X)...I was just surprised as well as happy by her reply? She replied
"I Am A Dancer Sir; I Am Not A Prostitute..."
The thing that motivated me to quote this story is "The Current Status of Our Values And Customs" we(Indian) used to quote and feel proud in front of the rest of the World. I am not saying that situation is out of control but you also may be realizing that its getting worse day by day. We all are aware of extramarital affairs(its applicable for both man/woman) and others issues like that; People use mask on their faces having dual standards...we hardly follow what we say...all time we pretend only...
I think Prostitute is the worst word used for woman...because we don't know what made her so...
"Jo Dikhta Hai Wo Hamesha Sahi Nahi Hota" we should never judge so quickly as we don't know everything always. So in my opinion that lady is much better than any of us who don't know what we are doing (wrong or right its a different matter as things changes relatively) but we neither stop that or open that...even if we feel it WRONG...
About a year ago one woman was caught in a raid by police here in Bangalore. She was charged in Prostitution case...but her story really shocked our society as she was selling her body to save her husband, to get the medicine and better treatment for him and her husband was well aware of that.
Now we are developing country our GDP,per capita income etc in increasing day by day...some people who can't donate money for a dying patient but they can spent their money in other way(Satisfying lust is one of them)...probably that's why that lady chose This Easier But Tough Path to save her husband life...May be this is the sign of being Developed Nation...But is it rally a Development???About you I can't say but for me its not and that lady has not done any Wrong...
"Sometime Life Make Us To Do What We Don't Like..."
Thursday, April 10, 2008
My first walk...
My first effort to walk on this bumpy land,
Fingers of my legs were cutting the smooth sand,
Enthusiasm was inherited from you,
My goal was big and those steps were few...
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Your warm hug was my innocent wish,
And warmness of your lap; i wanted to reach.
Hurdles of wind I was ignoring,
And a sweet song for me, you were singing...
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Your encouragement was the only source of energy,
I was unique with my versatility,
Fabulous run and those ambitions goal,
We both were playing each other’s role...
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And,
When you have kissed my forehead,
And my chicks were almost red,
When you gave me a hug,
I found myself in a big warm rug...
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That was my first walk towards you,
Tears were there in your eyes or result of dew?
I still remember those mesmerise memories,
I am missing you oh! Lovable mom,
And I know you too...
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Internal excitement was dancing like a sea,
I was in heaven or heaven inside me???
Note: If u liked this one... please appreciate the source of this
http://leaves-thoughts.blogspot.com/
NINE MONTHS IN THE HEAVEN...
Dedicated to all mothers
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The time before my birth,
When I was unattached with the earth,
I was in heaven and the time was worth.
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I was inside a world where everything was for me,
I was inside a pure soul she did not know whether I am he or she,
My birth was not decided god was note sure,
But she was so kind her love for me was so pure.
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When I was crying warm hands were there,
My needs and when she feed with care,
Her movements were hopeful for me,
And my reactions were painful for her,
What I have enjoyed inside her,
And what she has suffered.
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Her slow heartbeats and her warm breath,
This two were pillars and my strength,
Her innocent smile and remaining miles,
Was I in the heaven or heaven inside me?
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I was not matured and mind’s blind run,
Her love for me and my unwanted turn,
The next moment I was became a part of this world,
i am missing my nine months inside the heaven.
Note: If u liked this one... please appreciate the source of this
http://leaves-thoughts.blogspot.com/
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.
The time before my birth,
When I was unattached with the earth,
I was in heaven and the time was worth.
.
.
I was inside a world where everything was for me,
I was inside a pure soul she did not know whether I am he or she,
My birth was not decided god was note sure,
But she was so kind her love for me was so pure.
.
.
When I was crying warm hands were there,
My needs and when she feed with care,
Her movements were hopeful for me,
And my reactions were painful for her,
What I have enjoyed inside her,
And what she has suffered.
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.
Her slow heartbeats and her warm breath,
This two were pillars and my strength,
Her innocent smile and remaining miles,
Was I in the heaven or heaven inside me?
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I was not matured and mind’s blind run,
Her love for me and my unwanted turn,
The next moment I was became a part of this world,
i am missing my nine months inside the heaven.
Note: If u liked this one... please appreciate the source of this
http://leaves-thoughts.blogspot.com/
ADJUSTMENT...
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When I was born,
Was sleeping besides mom but not comfortable,
I said to nurse want some more space first,
She said please adjust.
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Went to school,
Was not aware with the rule,
Teacher said uniform is must,
I said ma’m please adjust.
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High school’s class,
I was late I was last,
Last bench with lots of dust,
Peon said please adjust.
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Fall in love,
She was fatty that I observed,
I thought my mind will surely burst,
I said to my self please adjust.
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At the bed with my last breath,
Aware with the sure death,
I found my grave covered with rust,
Luck said please adjust.
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Rebirth,
Awake as a man,
I said oh god! Me and my broken trust,
God replied please adjust.
Note: If u liked this one... please appreciate the source of this
http://leaves-thoughts.blogspot.com/
Was sleeping besides mom but not comfortable,
I said to nurse want some more space first,
She said please adjust.
.
.
Went to school,
Was not aware with the rule,
Teacher said uniform is must,
I said ma’m please adjust.
.
.
High school’s class,
I was late I was last,
Last bench with lots of dust,
Peon said please adjust.
.
.
Fall in love,
She was fatty that I observed,
I thought my mind will surely burst,
I said to my self please adjust.
.
.
At the bed with my last breath,
Aware with the sure death,
I found my grave covered with rust,
Luck said please adjust.
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.
Rebirth,
Awake as a man,
I said oh god! Me and my broken trust,
God replied please adjust.
Note: If u liked this one... please appreciate the source of this
http://leaves-thoughts.blogspot.com/
Wednesday, April 9, 2008
"मुझे किसी से..."
मुझे किसी से अब कुछ नहीं चाहिए...
नही; किसी से ... कुछ भी नहीं...
क्या तुमने देखा है कभी...
कि जो मांगो वो मिल जाता है आसानी से
क्या तुमने देखा है कभी...
कि प्यार देने भर से प्यार मिल जाता है
क्या तुमने देखा है कभी...
दुःख के बाद सुख हमेशा आता है
नही ना ... जानता हूँ यही जवाब होगा
पर एक बात जरूर जान गया हूँ
या यू कहो की; विश्वास है मुझे...
कि दूसरो के लिए कुछ मांगो; सच्चे मन से...
तो जरूर मिल जाता है...और शायद जल्दी भी
हाँ मिलता है प्यार के बदले प्यार भी...
पर जरूरी नही ये वापस मिले हमें ही
पर...लौट के आता है किसी न किसी रूप में...
तभी तो कहते है; देर है...अंधेर नही
प्यार नही करता भ्रमण किसी वृत्त में...
ये तो बढता रहता है वृक्ष की शाखों की तरह
माना दुःख के बाद सुख हमेशा ना आता हो...
पर हर दुःख कुछ सिखा के जरूर जाता है
आने वाले कुछ दुःख सहने की ताकत दे जाता है...
दुःख हम सहते है पर; सुख कोई "अपना" ही तो पता है
तो गर "कोई (ईश्वर)" दे सकता है तो; दे मुझे बस इतना ...
के किसी और से कभी कुच्छ ना माँगना पड़े
दे बस हिम्मत "मुझमे" और विश्वास "खुद" में...
जब भी किसी दुःख का सामना करना पड़े
मुझे किसी से और कुछ नही चाहिए...
नही; किसी से...और कुछ भी नही
पर एक बात जरूर जान गया हूँ
या यू कहो कि; विश्वास है मुझे..."मुझमे -उसमे "
"आशीष मौर्य"
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"Mujhe Kisi Se..."
Mujhe kisi se ab kuch nahi chahye...
nahi; kisi se... kuch bhi nahi...
kya tumne dekha hai kabhi...
ki jo maango wo mil jata hai asaani se
kya tumne dekha hai kabhi...
ki pyar dene bhar se pyar mil jata hai
kya tumne dekha hai kabhi...
dukh ke baad sukh hamesha aata hai
Nahi na...jaanta hoon yahi jawaab hoga
par ek baat jaroor jaan gaya hun
ya yu kaho ki vishwas hai mujhe...
ki dusro ke liye kuch maango; sacche mann se...
to jaroor mil jata hai...aur shayad jaldi bhi
haan milta hai pyar ke badle pyar bhi...
par jaruri nahi ye wapas mile hame hi
par laut ke aata hai kisi na kisi roop me...
tabhi to kahte hai der hai; andher nahi
pyar nahi karta bhraman kisi vratt(circle) me...
ye to badhta rahta hai vraksh ki shakho ki tarah
mana dukh ke baad sukh hamesha na aata ho...
par har dukh kuch sikha ke jarur jata hai
aane wale kuch dukh sahne ki takat de jata hai...
dukh hum sahte hai par; sukh koi APNA hi pata hai
to gar KOI de sakta hai to; de mujhe bas itna...
ki kisi aur se kabhi kuch na maangna pade
de bas himmat MUJHME aur vishwas KHUD me...
jab bhi kisi dukh ka saamna karna pade
mujhe kisi se aur kuch nahi chahye...
nahi; kisi se...aur kuch bhi nahi
par ek baat jaroor jaan gaya hun
ya yu kaho ki vishwas hai mujhe...MUJHME-USME
"Aashish Maurya"
नही; किसी से ... कुछ भी नहीं...
क्या तुमने देखा है कभी...
कि जो मांगो वो मिल जाता है आसानी से
क्या तुमने देखा है कभी...
कि प्यार देने भर से प्यार मिल जाता है
क्या तुमने देखा है कभी...
दुःख के बाद सुख हमेशा आता है
नही ना ... जानता हूँ यही जवाब होगा
पर एक बात जरूर जान गया हूँ
या यू कहो की; विश्वास है मुझे...
कि दूसरो के लिए कुछ मांगो; सच्चे मन से...
तो जरूर मिल जाता है...और शायद जल्दी भी
हाँ मिलता है प्यार के बदले प्यार भी...
पर जरूरी नही ये वापस मिले हमें ही
पर...लौट के आता है किसी न किसी रूप में...
तभी तो कहते है; देर है...अंधेर नही
प्यार नही करता भ्रमण किसी वृत्त में...
ये तो बढता रहता है वृक्ष की शाखों की तरह
माना दुःख के बाद सुख हमेशा ना आता हो...
पर हर दुःख कुछ सिखा के जरूर जाता है
आने वाले कुछ दुःख सहने की ताकत दे जाता है...
दुःख हम सहते है पर; सुख कोई "अपना" ही तो पता है
तो गर "कोई (ईश्वर)" दे सकता है तो; दे मुझे बस इतना ...
के किसी और से कभी कुच्छ ना माँगना पड़े
दे बस हिम्मत "मुझमे" और विश्वास "खुद" में...
जब भी किसी दुःख का सामना करना पड़े
मुझे किसी से और कुछ नही चाहिए...
नही; किसी से...और कुछ भी नही
पर एक बात जरूर जान गया हूँ
या यू कहो कि; विश्वास है मुझे..."मुझमे -उसमे "
"आशीष मौर्य"
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"Mujhe Kisi Se..."
Mujhe kisi se ab kuch nahi chahye...
nahi; kisi se... kuch bhi nahi...
kya tumne dekha hai kabhi...
ki jo maango wo mil jata hai asaani se
kya tumne dekha hai kabhi...
ki pyar dene bhar se pyar mil jata hai
kya tumne dekha hai kabhi...
dukh ke baad sukh hamesha aata hai
Nahi na...jaanta hoon yahi jawaab hoga
par ek baat jaroor jaan gaya hun
ya yu kaho ki vishwas hai mujhe...
ki dusro ke liye kuch maango; sacche mann se...
to jaroor mil jata hai...aur shayad jaldi bhi
haan milta hai pyar ke badle pyar bhi...
par jaruri nahi ye wapas mile hame hi
par laut ke aata hai kisi na kisi roop me...
tabhi to kahte hai der hai; andher nahi
pyar nahi karta bhraman kisi vratt(circle) me...
ye to badhta rahta hai vraksh ki shakho ki tarah
mana dukh ke baad sukh hamesha na aata ho...
par har dukh kuch sikha ke jarur jata hai
aane wale kuch dukh sahne ki takat de jata hai...
dukh hum sahte hai par; sukh koi APNA hi pata hai
to gar KOI de sakta hai to; de mujhe bas itna...
ki kisi aur se kabhi kuch na maangna pade
de bas himmat MUJHME aur vishwas KHUD me...
jab bhi kisi dukh ka saamna karna pade
mujhe kisi se aur kuch nahi chahye...
nahi; kisi se...aur kuch bhi nahi
par ek baat jaroor jaan gaya hun
ya yu kaho ki vishwas hai mujhe...MUJHME-USME
"Aashish Maurya"
"साहिल पर..."
खडे है साहिल पर कब से...
तेरा इंतज़ार करते - करते
बूँद - बूँद करके मिल रहे है; दरिया में
तुझे याद करते - करते...
"आशीष मौर्य"
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Khade Hai Saahil Par...Kab Se
Tera Intezaar Karte-Karte...
Boond-Boond Karke Mile Rahe Hai; Dariya Me
Tujhe Yaad Karte-Karte...
"Aashish Maurya"
तेरा इंतज़ार करते - करते
बूँद - बूँद करके मिल रहे है; दरिया में
तुझे याद करते - करते...
"आशीष मौर्य"
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"Saahil Par..."
Khade Hai Saahil Par...Kab Se
Tera Intezaar Karte-Karte...
Boond-Boond Karke Mile Rahe Hai; Dariya Me
Tujhe Yaad Karte-Karte...
"Aashish Maurya"
Tuesday, April 8, 2008
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